Monday, July 5, 2010

Everything is good for us?

For me, I have accepted that there is no "ideal" situation in which a person lives in. We cannot define or explain what the ideal is even. Once we establish that into our minds it becomes easier for us to accept our circumstances. We do not have anything to compare our situation with. The comparison we make is with the lives of others, the only variable we compare is the one we care about. We do not factor in all the other variables of a person's life and compare that with ours.

No one is better off than anyone else. It all depends on the variables we are choosing to compare and the ones we are choosing to ignore.

Now this brings me to my next point, how can we maintain a positive attitude throughout our lives? If we stop comparing our life with others, we can see the small joys that happen all around us but we fail to realise.

A little positivity can go a long way, if you believe in the universal law of attraction.

Thursday, June 17, 2010

New Step - New Beginning

I have been thinking quite a lot lately about my future. I keep finding myself at crossroads with expectations of others. I did enjoy this tug of war that occupied my brain for quite sometime. I am glad I made a decision afterall. If we keep others before us, we will be lost and purposeless. I find myself remembering the imagery of oceans waves. Do I want myself lost and washed away with the waves or do I want to hold myself up high and tall like the forts anchored into the ocean?

Each time I decided to do something, I felt the fear of failure, the possibility that I may not be able to make it. I would easily put it off by saying "oh I cannot possibly do this right now, I have to do [fill in excuse]". So here's to giving it my all!

Restarting...

I gave this blog a shot some time ago, I have been inspired to start it one more time. Hopefully if all goes well, I will be sharing my thoughts, reflections, beautiful pictures and lessons I learn.

This blog will serve as a mosh pit for my brain.